I will be addressing abuse including Sexual Abuse within our community in a three part blog. Here is Part 1: The other day, Oludare,  Esteemed Olorisha of Ogun, Musician and Teacher, made a statement about an Olorisha who had abused him in the context of a tambor that he had attended as drummer. Consequentially it brought up many conversations, outrage and responses and other people standing up and saying it had happened to them too. This is my take on abuse in our community. As someone that has been a Survivor of Abuse, not only Violent Rape, but Covert, insidious,…